IN THE
COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
FOR THE
STATE OF SOUTH CAROLINA
COLLETON
COUNTY
DEPOSITION
OF RALPH GORDON STAIR
GLENDON
ALLABY, KATHRYN ALLABY, CORA PFUND, ERIC
PFUND,
GREG LINDSEY, LARRY HARTLEY, MICHAEL DUVAL,
KATHLEEN
DUVAL, PEARL BUTLER, TIMOTHY BUTLER and
KEVIN
NEVIN,
Plaintiffs,
vs. CASE NO. 04-CP-15-382
R.G.
STAIR and FAITH CATHEDRAL FELLOWSHIP, INC.,
a/k/a
OVERCOMER MINISTRIES,
Defendants.
____________________________________________________
DEPONENT: RALPH GORDON STAIR
DATE: December 4, 2006
TIME: 9:00 a.m.
LOCATION: PETERS MURDAUGH PARKER ELTZROTH &
DETRICK,
PA
123
Walter Street
Walterboro,
SC 29488
REPORTED
BY: NANCY ENNIS TIERNEY, CSR (IL)
CLARK
& ASSOCIATES
P.O. Box
73129
North
Charleston, SC 29415
(843)
762-6294
A P P E
A R A N C E S
FOR THE
PLAINTIFFS:
PETERS,
MURDAUGH, PARKER, ELTZROTH
&
DETRICK, P.A. SMITH
BY:
BERT GLENN UTSEY, III
123
Walter Street
Walterboro,
SC 29488
(843)
549-9544
FOR THE
DEFENDANTS:
LAW
OFFICES OF MATHIAS G. CHAPLIN, P.A.
BY:
MATHIAS G. CHAPLIN
206 E.
Washington Street
Walterboro,
SC 29488
(843)
549-9330
I N D E
X
Page
Witness
Sworn 4
EXAMINATION
By Mr.
Utsey 4
By Mr.
Chaplin 225
By Mr.
Utsey 229
Certificate
of Reporter 250
Deponent
Correction Sheet 251
E X H I
B I T S
Page
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 1 77
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 2 106
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 3 117
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 4 163
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 5 189
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 6 200
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 7 204
Plaintiffs'
Exhibit Number 8 214
RALPH
GORDON STAIR, having first
duly
affirmed, testified as hereinafter set forth.
EXAMINATION
BY MR.
UTSEY:
Q. Can you give me your full name, please?
A. Ralph Gordon Stair.
Q. Mr. Stair, we are going to take your
deposition
here today. Have you ever provided a
deposition
before in any other cases?
A. Yes.
Q. On how many occasions?
A. One time.
Q. Do you generally understand how this
process
works?
A. Very well.
Q. I am going to go over a few points that
I
normally cover with folks before we begin.
You
may
know some or all of this, but I think it's
helpful
sometimes to tell people what to expect
and how
this process works. It makes it go a
little
more smoothly and quickly, hopefully.
I am
going to ask you some questions,
and you
are going to give me answers to the best
of your
knowledge and to the best of your
ability. And, of course, your answers need to be
truthful,
as you affirmed you would do.
The
purpose here is for me to
investigate,
or what we lawyers call discover,
different
parts of this case.
Under
our laws, I can't talk to you
except
for two occasions, one is here in the
deposition
with your attorney present and the
other
is if we go to trial and you are on the
witness
stand.
So it's
important for me to take this
time to
understand the knowledge you have about
these
cases and to investigate the case from that
perspective.
A. All right.
Q. I explain that to you now so that you
will
understand I'm not taking your deposition for
any
other purpose, and particularly not for any
improper
type purpose. I am not just here out of
curiosity
to delve into your private life, for
example.
I'm not
here to try to ask what I would
characterize
as trick questions or try to get you
to say
something that is not accurate. It
doesn't
do me
any good and it doesn't do you any good.
It's
simply an investigation tool.
And I
also give that introduction so
that
you will know that if I ask you a question
that
you find to be confusing, or one that you
would
rather me rephrase or repeat before you
answer
it, please let me know and I will be happy
to do
that.
Because
it's not my intention to try and
confuse
you with questions, but I know that we
lawyers
sometimes will talk too much and make what
could
otherwise be a simple question more
complicated
than it needs to be.
A
couple of ground rules that will help
with
ensuring that your testimony is recorded
accurately
and transcribed accurately when our
court
reporter prepares the transcript.
It's
difficult for her to type two
people
speaking at the same time, and so it will
be
important for me to wait until you finish your
answer
before I ask you a question and for you to
wait for
me to finish asking a question before you
begin
answering it.
Now, in
my experience I will probably
ask you
a question before you are finished
answering,
and you will probably answer a question
before
I'm finished asking.
If that
happens, you stop me or I will
stop
you. I want you to understand it's not
because
I'm being rude if I do that. It's
because
I want
to make sure that everything is accurate on
the
record.
Fair
enough?
A. Sure.
Q. Another thing is if you and I were just
talking
on the street, we might have a
conversation
where one of us shakes or nods our
head or
says uh-huh or huh-huh, or something like
that,
that might not be entirely clear if it were
transcribed.
So in
response to a question, if your
answer
is yes or no, you need to say yes or no
rather
than shaking your head. And if you
forget
to do
that, I might remind you. Again, it's
not
because
I'm trying to be rude. It's just
because
I want
to make sure that your testimony is
accurate
for the record.
A. Sure.
Yes.
Q. If you need to take a break at any time
during
the deposition, let me know, a rest room
break,
coffee break, whatever, and I will be happy
to
accommodate you.
I will
tell you that under our rules, if
you
have any conversations with anyone during a
break, including
with your attorney, that when we
resume
I'm entitled to ask you about the
conversations,
even if those conversations might
otherwise
be attorney-client privileged.
Under
our rules, once a deposition
starts,
then the witness is sort of on his own as
far as
what he's going to say and testify and
can't
get assistance from his attorney unless it's
with
respect to a question of whether to claim
attorney-client
privilege to a particular
question.
Do you
feel like you understand that?
A. Oh, yes.
Q. If you have any questions about the
deposition
itself, or about the process that we
are
using here, I will need for you to address
those
questions to me and I will do my best to
answer
those before we go on.
Fair
enough?
A. Uh-huh.
Q. Any other questions that you have before
we get
started?
A. Not that I know of.
Q. Are you feeling well enough to give your
deposition
today?
A. Oh, yes.
Q. Are you taking any medication or under
the
influence of anything that would affect your
ability
to hear, understand and respond truthfully
to my
questions here today?
A. No.
Q. Let me get some background information
on you.
What is
your date of birth?
A. 3rd of May, '33.
Q. Have you ever gone by any other names?
A. No.
Brother Stair.
Q. Okay.
Well, I understand, yeah, title.
A. No.
Q. Are you married?
A. Yes.
Q. And your wife's name?
A. Teresa Grace.
Q. Is Grace her maiden name or is that a
middle
name?
A. That's her middle name. Her maiden name
is
Erconolino.
Q. Can you spell that? I'm putting you on
the
spot, I know.
A. I'm sorry.
I don't know if I can do
that or
not. E-c -- Erco --
E-r-c-o-n-o-l-i-n-o,
somewhere
like that.
MR.
CHAPLIN: You can clarify it later
today.
Q. How long have you-all been married?
A. I think about 25 years. I'm not sure of
the
exact date.
Q. Is that your only marriage?
A. No.
Q. Who was your previous marriage to?
A. Jeraldine -- let's see. What is her
name? It's been so long. I remember her middle
name.
Q. That's okay. What was her maiden name?
A. Hilbert, H-i-l-b-e-r-t.
MR.
CHAPLIN: I apologize. I am going
to ask
you just to give me one second here and put
this
fire out because it's involving a judge, and
then I
won't have to bother you anymore. It
will
just
take two minutes.
MR.
UTSEY: Sure.
(A
recess was taken.)
Q. Before we took a break you were telling
me
about the fact that you were previously married
to
Jeraldine Hilbert?
A. Yes.
Q. And that marriage ended how? Did she
pass
away or did you-all get divorced or what?
A. No.
She just divorced me.
Q. And approximately when was that?
A. Well, like I say, about 25, 30 years
ago,
something like that.
Q. Oh, okay.
And in what state was that?
A. That was in Georgia.
Q. Do you remember what county?
A. No.
Q. And what were the grounds for divorce?
A. There wasn't any. She just divorced.
Q. It wasn't as if anybody accused anybody
of any
wrongdoing or anything?
A. No.
Q. Fair enough. Are those your only two
marriages,
or did you have any marriages before
that?
A. That's it.
Q. Any children?
A. Yeah.
I have five from the first wife
and one
from the second.
Q. Let me get their names and ages, please.
A. Oh, man.
You are asking me questions
that I
don't know if I can give you the answers
to.
Q. I thought these were the layups.
A. Well, I don't know how old each one of
them
are.
Q. Give me -- I assume they are all over
the age
of 18 if you had been married to her 25 --
A. Definitely. All of my children from her
are --
the oldest is probably at least 50s and
then
down to 40s. Probably the youngest one
is
somewhere,
I would say, in his 30s.
And
then I have a young daughter with my
second
wife, and she is 20.
Q. What is her name?
A. Naomi. Her last name is
Bowles,
B-o-w-l-e-s. She is married now.
Q. Where does she live?
A. Up near Columbia.
Q. Do any of your children live in Colleton
County?
A. No.
Q. Other than your wife, do you have any
other
relatives who reside in Colleton County?
A. No.
Q. How about any relatives through your
wife's
side of her family?
A. No.
Q. Where is your wife from originally?
A. New Jersey.
Q. How long have you been in the Colleton
County
area?
A. At least 25, 30 years. Almost 30 years
I would
say, 25 for sure.
Q. Before that where were you?
A. I lived in Savannah for awhile, and I
pastored
a church in New York and one in Boston.
Q. Where are you from originally?
A. Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.
Q. When did you leave that area?
A. Oh, many years ago. I would say at
least
40 years ago, maybe longer than that.
Q. So the states you have lived in include
Pennsylvania,
South Carolina, New York, Georgia?
A. I lived in Georgia. I lived in Alabama
for a
long time years ago when I first started to
pastor.
Q. Any others?
A. Where I lived?
Q. Yes, sir.
A. I lived in California for awhile.
Q. Anywhere else?
A. Of course, you know, for many years I
was a
traveling evangelist so I was in a lot of
states,
and I would sometimes stay in those states
for who
knows how long, as far as living. I
can't
say I
lived in most of them, no.
Q. I guess I'm looking more for your
residence
rather than --
A. I would say Georgia, Alabama, New York
and
California would be the states I lived in.
Q. And then when you were doing this
out-of-town
evangelism, how long would you stay if
you
said you had a protracted stay?
A. Sometimes months and sometimes weeks.
Q. Now, the case here is pending in
Colleton
County, and one of the things that the
lawyers
for both sides will do is to try and make
sure
that we have a jury that doesn't have any
connections
to either the plaintiffs or the
defendants
in the case.
That is
why I asked you about your
relatives
that may be in the county. But also,
obviously,
I would also like to understand who are
members
of your congregation or your ministry?
A. We don't have any membership.
Q. Do you have folks that associate
themselves
with -- am I using the term correctly
to say
congregation, or do you call it fellowship
or --
A. We have people who come to our meetings,
yes,
but they are not members. They just
attend
our
services, and that could be some from here,
some
from locally. People drive in from
various
areas.
Q. Do you have folks who live on the
grounds?
A. Sure.
Q. Are there any lists of such people that
can be
produced?
A. Oh, yes.
Q. So is it fair to say that if we were
preparing
to try this case, if we get to that
point, I
could get a list from Mr. Chaplin just to
make
sure I could compare that against the
prospective
jury list?
A. Correct.
Q. All right.
What would I call that list
if I
was to ask for it?
A. I guess the residents of the Overcomer
community. Of course, they don't all live with
me. There are other people in the area.
Q. Who attend services?
A. Yes.
Q. Do you maintain a list of donors? Say
someone
doesn't live on the community but they
donate
money?
A. Yes.
We have people who donate money.
We have
a list of every one of them, sure, but I
don't
know if I could give you that list.
MR.
CHAPLIN: I think we provided
something
in discovery already with regards to all
of the
different plaintiffs.
MR.
UTSEY: Right, but I'm looking more
in
terms of selecting a jury.
MR.
CHAPLIN: Selecting a jury. Okay.
A. You are talking about somebody in the
area
that could be potential jurors?
MR.
CHAPLIN: Somebody that might have
donated
money so that he could actually --
Q. Yeah.
Hypothetically, I guess a jury
list
has 150 names on it. If one person
buried in
that
150 names is someone who regularly attends
and
donates --
A. That wouldn't be a problem.
Q. -- I want to know that.
MR.
CHAPLIN: On voir dire, wouldn't
they
have to answer that, though, if they ever
donated?
MR.
UTSEY: In my experience, not
everybody
answers those questions accurately. And
that's
not always intentional. I mean, I think
sometimes
they get confused or don't know what
they
should answer. But there is always some
--
A. If I understand your question correctly,
you are
wanting to know anybody in this general
area
that could be a potential juror?
Q. Who has a relationship with you.
A. Right.
That isn't no problem.
Q. Okay.
If you-all want to do the same
thing
with the people that might have a
relationship
with my clients, we will give you
that,
too.
A. Sure.
Q. Easy enough. Let me get some more
background
information on you, Mr. Stair. How far
did you
go in terms of formal education?
A. I
went to 10th grade.
Q. Where was that?
A. In Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.
Q. What school is that?
A. Bethlehem High School. That is the last
one I
attended.
Q. Did you get a GED after that or any
other
formal education?
A. No.
I took Bible study courses and
things
like that from various religious
organizations,
but I never --
Q. Did you ever serve in the military?
A. No.
Q. Tell me about your religious training,
your
Bible study courses or however you want to
characterize
it.
A. Well, you just took Bible study courses
that
they had, theological, doctrines and things
like
that. That is what they were.
Q. Are these formal courses of study?
A. Yes.
Sure.
Q. And when you finish those do you get
some
sort of certificate of completion or degree?
A. They would just give you a little
certificate
of completion.
Q. Give me some idea of what those
involved,
or which one of those you have done.
A. Well, I took a course with the Free
Methodist
Church. That is back when I was 17, 18