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|Name: Michael Rowland
From: Hi Lori
You are right about that because I called Brenda his daughter on the telephone, one of the sons and I thought instead of her I talked to her husband? Because she wouldn't come to the phone (wanting to leave that part of her life behind) or some man there? I talked to Jr. as well by email.
This was 9 years ago and at the time I was calling dozens of people and the phone bill the month of Oct 2001 was $500.
The opinions I have formed and statements I have posted are very accurate concerning the information gathered from your family directly or indirectly as I am sure you well know.
Yes you are right that his first wife would not come to the phone and speak directly to me. I almost forgot that and thanks for reminding me.
However I do consider the words spoken by those around her whoever they are to be accurate as I asked them directly if this was what Mrs went through.
As far as divorce is measured in scripture it states that the person committing sexual sins against the marriage bed is the one who is divorcing or separating from.
Someone sending a letter from a Lawyer is not an act of divorce. As recorded and so often misread in the Bible where it says that the LETTER OF DIVORCE came only after the hardness of heart.
Usually the offender will take this verse and say that they slipped and now their spouse is so unforgiving and hard hearted they are the one's who are doing the divorcing.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Once again let me assure you or any person listening that this hard hearted action listed in scripture referring to fornication departing GOD/ adultery and is what destroys a marriage and ultimately is bringing about a break or a divorce, not the person sending a few leaflets of paper with a Lawyers name on it.
Thank you for sharing the truth after all these long years of silence. I know that many of your family members will not allow you this freedom most of the time because they feel it would only appear as gossip, so I understand.
This is not gossip nor is this a group of Christians who enjoy this subject matter. Yet this responsibility has fallen on us and we bare this burden before all.
Once again thank you for the honest to God truth, we do appreciate it, as this is the right thing to do.
|Name: Lori Stair
From: Wife of Ralph Stair Jr.
Lori Stair I am the wife of Ralph Stair Jr., one of the son's from Ralph Stair Seniors first wife, Geraldine. This reply is in reference to Brother Mike's post dated August 15Th.
After reading this post I felt that the record should at least be the whole truth.
Geraldine has never been contacted by anyone about Ralph and their life together. One of her daughters was interviewed once and that was the extent of who has been contacted in reference of Ralph's prior life with his first wife.
First, Geraldine was raised by a minister herself and so she knew and had come to the Lord long before Stair came into her life. When she married him, she was committed to their marriage for life. She did not know that he would commit adultery from the very beginning of their marriage and that it would be with numerous women all over the country.
Despite his indiscretions Geraldine stayed with him for many years, through many affairs and went on to have five children with him. Geraldine did separate from Stair fours years prior to the divorce to limit the trauma of her children seeing these indiscretions and ungodly behaviors.
Late one night Stair called her up and asked that she file for divorce and he would pay for it because his latest mistress Teresa wanted a commitment of marriage from him. Geraldine complied because first she feared him and she also recognized that he was no longer the man of God she thought he was when they first married. However, being a righteous woman she never considered divorce before and only did it to comply to his wishes.
She does recall an incident with a young girl in Oklahoma once where Stair was brought into the police department for trying to pick up a school age girl but it never went to court, so that is the only memory she has of that incident.
I find it truly shameful that not only has Stair turned away from God but that he lays the blame for his sins at the feet of his first wife, who has always been a righteous and Godly woman, who is an example to all christian women in how to serve the Lord. She never had any intention of divorcing Ralph and never had any indiscretions in her life as she was committed completely to her marriage and the Lord from the very beginning.
Shame on Ralph Senior for trying to tarnish the reputation of a Godly woman, that stood by him even when he was hurting her. Despite his bad example, his children all love the Lord and Geraldine has continued in her walk as well. I pray for Ralph nightly, as it is my hope that one day the Lord will turn over his reprobate mind,that he repents of his sins,so he may one day be reunited with his family and see the kingdom of heaven. As Christians that is what the bible tells us we are to do for those who do not see the truth and continue to live a life of sin.
I wish I could speak with Stair personally but I have been warned that he believes he has innate rights and justifies all of his behaviors as a man of God. That he does not see reason, nor obviously read his bible...as it is a guide to us all in how to live our lives. So I will continue to hold him up in prayer.
|Name: Prophets are Wind
From: To Ralph Stair (F.P.)
Jer 5:13 And the prophets shall become wind, and the word(Of God) is not in them: thus shall it be done unto them.
31 The prophets prophesy falsely,
14:14 The prophets prophesy lies in my name:
14:15 By sword and famine shall those prophets be consumed.
23:14 I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness: they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.
15: Behold, I will feed them with wormwood, and make them drink the water of gall:
16: Hearken not unto the words of the prophets
21: I have not sent these prophets,
26: they are prophets of the deceit of their own heart;
30: I am against the prophets,
Lam 2:9 her prophets also find no vision from the LORD.
14 Thy prophets have seen vain and foolish things for thee:
4:13 For the sins of her prophets, and the iniquities of her p***, that have shed the blood of the just in the midst of her,
Ezek 13:3 Woe unto the foolish prophets,
4 O Israel, thy prophets are like the foxes in the deserts.
22:25 There is a conspiracy of her prophets in the midst thereof, like a roaring lion ravening the prey;
Micah 3:11 the prophets thereof divine for money: yet will they lean upon the LORD, and say, Is not the LORD among us? none evil can come upon us.
|Name: Thomas Belford
Yeah thanks Steve Ralph likes to think he is in good light according to scripture. He Thinks he is the WAY ? His problems come to light because of his way instead of our lord Jesus (Yahweh) in the flesh comes without sin.
Ralph takes worship to himself from his house of the ungodly for his own worship or he has title to there souls and they will serve him instead of the true savior.
|Name: Bro Mike
From: Fred Phelps
I heard ole Fred Phelps the other day saying that God hates America and Fags and I thought how ralph does the same thing to get people's attention.
Check out godhatesfags and see for yourself.
Michael ps God does hate homosexuals and this gets the focus off ralphs sins with his concubines. You know that sin is not as bad as what the fags are doing right?
|Name: Deut 18
From: How shall we know/Judge
Deut 18:20 But the prophet, which shall presume to speak a word in my name, which I have not commanded him to speak, or that shall speak in the name of other gods, even that prophet shall die.
Here in verse 18 we see the phrase "that prophet shall die" and in the Old testament type and shadow of things to come they took these guys out to the city gate and stoned them.
Today that same gate is representative of our mouth because it is what comes out of the mouth that come from the heart and so when we speak against false leaders we are figuratively stoning them with words at the gate.
21 And if thou say in thine heart, How shall we know the word which the LORD hath not spoken?
22 When a prophet speaketh in the name of the LORD, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the LORD hath not spoken, but the prophet hath spoken it presumptuously: thou shalt not be afraid of him.
These are not suggestions but rather commands, that is if you love God.
|Name: Jason P Adams
From: A Little Harsh
I apologize to the netteam if my last post seemed a little harsh.It just really burned me when I heard stair condemning the whole world out of self rightousness. None of us will be the judge of what happens to the people around us. If I had a way to do it,I'd get on the air myself and put that guy out of business.
|Name: Brother Michael
I will explain why ralphs claims his gOd doesn't care about anything or any of these people.
Thats easy. This gives ralph the open door to use and abuse because in his sick thinking his gOd is going to kill them all anyway.
While ralph continual tries to get another young woman to sacrifice her purity ralphs sets himself on his worldwide pedestal claiming he is the Almighty's one and only spokesmen.
utter foolishness. ralph is speaking out of his own heart.
These are the words of GOD:
Deut 13:13:1 If there arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer of dreams, and giveth thee a sign or a wonder,
2 And the sign or the wonder come to pass, whereof he spake unto thee, saying, Let us go after other gods, which thou hast not known, and let us serve them;
3 Thou shalt not hearken unto the words of that prophet, or that dreamer of dreams: for the LORD your God proveth you, to know whether ye love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul.
4 Ye shall walk after the LORD your God, and fear him, and keep his commandments, and obey his voice, and ye shall serve him, and cleave unto him.
5 And that prophet, or that dreamer of dreams, shall be put to death; because he hath spoken to turn you away from the LORD your God, which brought you out of the land of Egypt, and redeemed you out of the house of bondage, to thrust thee out of the way which the LORD thy God commanded thee to walk in. So shalt thou put the evil away from the midst of thee.
|Name: Jason P Adams
stair mentioned a few things last nite that let's me know he reads this page every day. He was talking about the comments about the mosque and the murder scene. According to him,we are just wasting our time worrying about the world becouse the world is pretty much done and that God don't care about any of it anyway.
Yes stair, I listen to you. I monitor your show like the CIA monitors al-qaeda.
Since when does God not care?????? NOBODY including you stair,knows when this is over. Until it is,we have to carry on. We still have to stand for right and not wrong. What are you going to say to God when he asked you what you accomplished. Are you going to tell him you hid under a rock? He's liable to tell you to crawl back under it.
I heard you cursing on the air last nite too. Want to explain that one? Crawl back under your rock on your pathetic little farm and take your radio show with you.
|Name: M. Rowland
From: New Audio from Steve
Stair preaching on sex again in service.
Gay agenda by ralph