My name is Gregory Lindsey and I am 32 years old. I was at the community for
7
years I worked on the computers, broadcast equipment. I went there in 1994
and left in
2001.
Internet
When Ralph Gorden Stair first got the Internet he had the computer so that
when
you walked in you could see the monitor. Later he positioned the computer he
browsed
the most on where you could not see the screen when you walked in. He always
said that
everybody else was weak and couldn't handle the Internet. Ralph said that he
was strong
and could handle it.
I was using as the Internet one night and I was typing in a url for zdnets
hotfiles
and before I finished down dropped a list of typed url's with a porn site in
it. I checked
to see if their where more by going through the alphabet and found more in
the list. I then
went to the Internet temp directory and found other evidence. I found this
more than
once. I wasn't looking for this information when I found it. This happened
several
occasions
Another time he called me in and asked me to remove some music that wouldn't
quit playing. Ralph was red in the face and claimed that he was tricked into
going to that
web site. It was a porn web site.
One day Ralph got up in the dining hall and described in detail how you
could go
to a porn site and click on the people you wanted to see and watch them in
the act. Then
he said he didn't do it. He went into more detail and was more graphic than
I wrote here.
I knew by the detail he was not talking about something a person could do
but it was an
experience he was describing. This was all spoken in front of the women and
children.
Before I left Dennis Bush who still lives there told me that he walked in on
him
and Ralph almost fell out of his chair cutting the monitor off and then
angrily asked him
what he wanted. His actions show that he was hiding whatever was on that
screen. This
was on the main computer.
Drugs
Ralph preaches against drugs yet I was going through the manuals when I was
working on some of the equipment I ran across a brochure from a doctor for
some
impotence drug. It was put out by a doctor, which he says he is totally
against. I later was
talking to one of the young boys and he told me about Ralph's daughter
opened one of
his packages and told him these are my daddy's pills to make mama happy.
Later
Thomas Belford informed me that his son had found empty pill bottles in the
trash. He
Was taking impotence medication while he was raping and seducing the women.
Special Treatment
He also gave himself extra privileges. He would buy special food but was
quick
to condemn anyone else that got caught buying it. He claimed double honor.
He would
get milk and take it home but no one else was supposed to. There are many
other
incidents like this but this is enough.
Meeting
There was a meeting where it was brought out how he raped seduced many of
the
women. He would use his position to pressure the sisters to have sex with
him. He
offered marriage to some of the sisters if they would have sex with him. He
even went
after some after they where married plotting to send off the husband. He
also hit on some
of the sisters that where married before they came there. He would put some
of the single
sisters close to his house so he could visit them late at night. He tried to
force one sister
repeatedly until she was afraid to go home. He would lie and say he didn't
attempt
anything with a sister. When the sister was asked they told what he did. The
men went
back and asked him and he would say I can't believe she said that. He tried
to make
pathetic excuses. This happened repeatedly. He always said we were not a
spiritual
people because of the influence of hell. He did not dispute this fact. Did
we lose our
spirituality when we left? He has cleared out the community twice before
this time.
For
thirty years he has been doing this, having affairs and raping.
Deliverance ??
Many of us wanted to help him get deliverance. He did not need to remain in
authority after what he had done. He refused deliverance he never truly
repented. He
attacked those that wanted to help him by twisting scriptures. When we would
leave his
presence and not listen to his rhetoric he would say we walked away from the
light into
darkness. I just told the brethren that Jesus is the light not Ralph. There
was no change.
He was only sorry he got caught. Ralph later stated blaming the sisters. He
said they had
a whorish spirit on them. He would try to point something out about you to
get the focus
off of him. He even started bragging about what he did saying they all
enjoyed it.
We
had another meeting outside Ralph's radio broadcast room he did not want to
let any one
talk but himself finally he relented and let Stan Felicia talk. Stan started
talking about us
needing deliverance and he brought up a conversation Ralph and he had in
which Ralph
admitted devils had been cast out of him. Stair never denied having devils
cast out. He
still would not repent. Those spirits got 7 more spirits wicked than
themselves. This
meeting started the exodus from the farm in Canadies SC. On the way from the
bank he
told a brother while a brother that was in the back seat was leaving that
"Brother I could
of took her." There was some more to that but this should be sufficient.
Conclusion
Last I heard he was on the broadcast saying everybody that left had a wicked
spirit. We just up and left for no reason. He tries to condemn those who
leave to hell to
put fear into the hearts of those that stay behind. Esau stayed and Jacob
left. He tried to
make us believe you had to be there to be saved. Jesus saves not a piece of
land. He is
possessed. He is going to hell. He is a modern day Pharisee.
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